Start Dating a clairvoyant

Dating a clairvoyant

Psychic Deborah Graham has had premonitions since she was a little kid and has been advising people on their love lives for over 20 years.

She believes there's one "twin flame soulmate" for everyone, and until you meet that person, you have "fillers" — relationships that come along to teach you about yourself and prepare you for that final, spiritually destined partnership.

On the flip side, it's also easy to build someone up in your mind when they seem really great on an app, but this can set you up to be disappointed by them.

Graham has seen this disappointment lead clients to think dates had gone poorly when they'd actually gone well.

Apparently, there's a lot we've been doing wrong, and between her psychic intuition and her experience counseling people on their relationships, Graham has a unique perspective to offer people whose dating lives seem to be stuck in a rut.

Graham, who is also the star of TLC's "Psychic Matchmaker," tells Bustle that she can tune into people's energetic fields to find out what their romantic histories look like, where their paths are leading, and what they need to do to remove obstacles in their way.

You could even introduce each other to your future partners.

Graham had one client who went out with a woman who was giving away a puppy.

You're able to feel the energy of the other person, whether he or she is happy, sad, or angry." And sometimes, a phone call can make the difference between a relationship moving forward and stagnating.