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Unless you’re taking Barlow Girl’s stance on waiting till marriage (no dating until marriage), you’re probably going to date several people for various periods of time before you get married.

Keep that attitude and they’ll be able to help you through it and probably ease a lot of your concerns. You keep picturing your girlfriend/boyfriend having sex with some other person — doing all of the things you’ve waited to do for so long with somebody else, as if it’s nothing — and it’s like knives through your heart. But so much for that, because now they’re gone, and you’re faced with the prospect of dating somebody who was nowhere near as good as them and has a sexual history that is five times as bad. To some people who are waiting till marriage, the virginity-factor can be all-consuming when picking a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Jealousy, hurt, anger, wounded pride, injustice…all of those feelings are going to tear at you. Especially in the early stages of waiting till marriage, finding another virgin can be so important to you that once you compromise on it (i.e., by dating somebody who’s a non-virgin), it can become all you can see.

Our members are from all walks of life, with varied backgrounds and interests.

Whether you are yourself disabled, or are positive about meeting and dating disabled people, we are sure you will find someone who shares your outlook on life.

Say these words to them: “I’m sorry, the more I like you it just gets hard for me to think about your sexual past.

It’s just been bothering me lately, but I’m working through it.

In a way, it feels like they cheated on you (and you can’t get it out of your head).


 
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